The Real Reasons Men Commit by Joel Block & Kimberly Dawn Neumann

Author:Joel Block & Kimberly Dawn Neumann [Block, Joel, Neumann, Kimberly Dawn]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Love & Romance, FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage
Publisher: Adams Media, Inc.
Published: 2009-07-15T00:00:00+00:00

Thoughtfulness in the Bedroom

Are you more often than not left unsatisfied after sex with your lover? Does he seem unconcerned about that? Is that throwing doubt into your hopes for commitment?

The way a man behaves in the bedroom is absolutely telling of where your relationship may be headed. Though like everything in life, some guys are simply better in bed than others, the bottom line is that the man who is looking for something more than a partner for regular sack sessions is going to behave differently than the man who is only about satisfying his carnal desires. If you’re left cold after sex (or hot but not finished) while he’s passing out, then thoughtfulness has left the bedroom and you need to think twice about where your relationship is headed.

Here’s the thing: Men view sex differently than women. That we’ve already established. In fact, many men may be able to look at sex like a sport. They push hard, reach a goal, and then hit the locker room for a shower (or the kitchen for a snack). And occasionally it’s okay for a woman to accept sex that is all about his pleasure. But we stress the word occasionally. Why? Because too many women are willing to put up with it being all about his pleasure frequently or most of the time. However, there is a little something called reciprocity that women sometimes forget, but it must be considered if commitment is your ultimate goal.

You see, the man who is really looking to be with you for the long term is also going to be the man who wants to please you in bed. In other words, if he’s all into his own kinks and pleasure and forgets about you (the beautiful woman underneath him) in the process, it’s likely that he’s not really thinking about your well-being outside of the bedroom. The man who realizes what a prize you are will remember that even in the heat of passion. He’ll want to build you up and make you feel adored while also satisfying his manly needs. In other words, he’s going to want to “give” in bed because it makes you feel good, not just because it ensures that he’ll get what he wants. True thoughtfulness doesn’t have a price tag attached.

As we discussed previously in regard to VNs, it’s also important for you as a commitment-seeking woman to remember that committed sex includes having sex in a way that nurtures and builds trust and communication between two people. It’s an intimate connection that fosters closeness, love, and caring. If you find yourself in a situation where that is never or rarely happening, you may start to feel yourself pulling away outside the bedroom as well. Why? Because your emotional and physical needs are not being met during sex (and like it or not, sex is a big part of any relationship). A man who is truly desirous of a long-term commitment is going to be aware of how his woman is responding in bed, what her needs are, what makes her happy.

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